Machismo.
In a certain day of riding in a jeepney, a man would always look at the incoming ladies who would show off their ass while on the way to their seats. The ass, or might as well – the panty.
As the lady goes in, the driver drools with the cleavage’s reflection in his rear view mirror. Who could resist temptation for free?
In an MRT station, a man would always look at the bumper of a lady. It would be a lot nicer if the girl wears tube, an off-shoulder, and the stuff. Those revealing cuts, and dirty looks would look great!
Backless girls are not that sexy, especially if it’s too hairy or dotted with small bumps. Who would wear those stuff if they know they have one of those?
I honestly confess that I’ve been looking forward every six in the afternoon at Sargie’s, a night club wherein girls would parade at the parking lot – wearing their oozing outfits. They even have their color of the day, side by side with their shortest shorts and their most revealing outfits. I only stare at them whenever my service would pass by the club (and when 6 strikes); but I never had any attempt to go there.
Well, that explains the traffic in McArthur. Jeepney drivers, tricycle drivers, motorcyclists, and any driver would slow down their speed as they stare at the prosti-mannequins posing at the entrance of Sargie’s.
I even consider it as one of the tourist spots of Bocaue.
At night, when I walk with my barkada along the McArthur Highway – we’d see bunch of these girls. We’d even see couples (in this case, they’re unofficial couples and their relationship is available only and within the night) kissing by the rocky sidewalks of the road. They even pose like what those pocketbooks portray in their cover.
By the way, forgive me for branding those girls as prostitutes. I know that they do have a clean motive; or I mean, some of them. Money is money, and they need it. They’d lick the sharpest swords, they don’t care if they’d bleed. As long as they earn money.
Unfortunately, I do not know the point of view of the girls. I am not a girl. But I want to know if the females also have these kind of fantasies. Share some.
(I’m in the Computer Lab, busy with the Layout of our School Paper. Sorry if the post wasn’t that nice!)
nyahaha. sana tiga benilde na lang ang mga nakatambay dun. nacheacheapan ako sa mga prostitutes. unless, nagbebenta na ng laman si nicole scherzinger(tama ba?).
di ka naman kaya tinitigasan habang ginagawa mo itong blog? hahaha.
Prostitutes nga naman talaga, wala ng pakealam basta kumita lang ng pera. Kahit na pera lang ang habol nila, labeled pa rin sila as prostitutes. Kahit na labag sa kalooban nila yun at pwede silang makakuha ng maraming sakit eh sige pa rin.
Minsan, nakakainis din pag tinitignan ka, hindi mo alam kung anong mali sa itsura mo. Since hinihingi mo ang opinyon ng babae at nagkataong babae ako. Ganito yun, kami, or rather ako lang pala kasi hindi ko naman alam kung ganun din ung ibang girls. Tinitignan ko lang kung gwapo/cute, in short, muka lang talaga. Secondary factors na lang sakin kung payat ba sya or chubby or hunk ang dating. I dont drool on men’s bodies, sa face mana pa. haha.
hey. hey. wait there.
saglit lang, ha. saglit lang.
teka. ayan na.
napikon ako sa post mo. as in.
first thing, prostitutes are victims. victims of their own needs, may it be lust or money, but still, they are victims of what their environment asks of them.
second thing, men drool. women show off. why,oh, why kahit alam ng mga babae na nababastos sila? one reason, they want to flaunt because they have what it takes to flaunt. two, women have fantasies, as men also do, but women cannot show it the way men do cause of the hypocrite society. and sometimes [not all the time], women like when someone ogles them. but i’m not talking in general. i’m talking about the women you were talking about in your post. kung ganon ang iba, that doesn’t mean that women in general always do that.
[teka, tama ba pagkakaintindi ko?]
*disclaimer: as of this moment, as yna is writing this comment, she/he in particular has no gender. alien siya at hindi alam ang kanyang sinasabi.
Haha… ALam mo, may experience ako nito one time!
May lumapit saming bugaw, tapos tinanong kami… “Mga Pare, kukuha ba kayo ng babae?” Nyahaha! Grabe, nakakatakot ung panahon na un, amoy Weeds pa naman siya! @-)
Anyhoo… Kanina lang may nakita ako sa bandang Rotonda na naka tube… Inaamin ko, sa school ganon ako, haha! Pero hindi katawan ang tinitignan ko, kundi mukha… Past time na namin ng Kaklase ko un… tuwing tumatambay kami sa mga corridors, naghahanap kami ng mga magaganda… Pero hanggang tingin lang kami…
I respect the opposite sex so much… Sana karamihan satin ganon din ang ginagawa… Pero dapat nagmumula un sa mga taong tulad ng nakita mo… Diba?
kahit babae ako (babae nga ba?!), di ko pa rin maiwasang mapikon sa kapwa girls ko na super hilig magpakita ng kung anu-ano. di ko alam kung nananadya ba or wala lang talagang malay. minsan parang mas ine-enjoy pa nila ang mabastos. well, can’t exactly blame them. nasa personality na nila yun eh. pero it’s girls like them who make way for the world to overgeneralize us women. dahil sa kanila, feeling ng mga tao (tao dahil ayokong sabihin na lalake lang) na pwede nilang bastusin kahit sinong babaeng makasalubong nila. that is not even half-true. tsk.
mga ibang lalake naman, naka! wag na masyadong tumingin. kinukunsinti nio lang ang mga girls na yan eh. tama na. reserve those eyes for your magazines. haha. jowk.
Wait lang.
Eh kasi yung ibang babae naman todo kung manamit akala mo masusunog na tayo sa sobrang init kaya napakaikli ng mga sinusuot. Nakakayamot naman din yung ibang lalaki na kung makatingin parang ngayon lang nakakita ng babae.
Err. Madami na akong nakasabay na ‘medyo manyak’ sa jeep. 
Todo tingin blahblah. Kawawa nga yung kaharap kong naka-nurse na uniform. Todo baba siya ng palda niya.
Sana wag mastadong obvious yung pagtingin. Nakakabastos minsan. Sarap batukan. Alam naming mga lalaki kayo and hindi naiiwasan yung mga ganyang klase ng pag-iisip. Pero ayun. Tone down na lang.
ang mga lalaki nga naman. hindi naman maiwasan ang ganyang pagtingin-tingin sa mga babae pero dapat yang iwasan.
there are so many things in this world na wala sa next destination ng tao. that’s why we have to let go of this so-called worldly things na naghihinder sa atin sa pagkilos ng tama sa mundong ito.
at the first place, we weren’t here to fantasize each other, to enjoy our own lusts. men drool because of the work of the evil ones. sa tingin niyo ba mabuti ang pagpopokpok, pagpoprostitute o kaya pagbebenta ng laman? ano na bang klaseng mundo ang meron tayo. hindi na natin focus ang Maker natin.
i am so afraid — not because of what people will say about my being against their deeds but because of the frightful and dreadful future they are seeking ahead.
how i wish maging karapat-dapat tayo sa mata ng ating Diyos. ewan ko ba kung bakit maraming porn site na laganap sa web, maraming magazines na ‘for adults only’, maraming night club na pinamumugaran ng malalanding babae na nagbibigay-aliw sa mga malilibog at kating-kating mga lalaki and many people are wanting more of what they see on prints, fantasizing every inch of the woman’s body.
ano ba ang napapala ng mga taong pinaiikot ang mundo sa LUST, LUST at LUST? nakakainis isipin; pasensya ka na.
wala na rin akong time since 15 minutes lang ang ginamit ko today para mag-online.
interesting.
nakow. parang iba yata ang takbo ng isip mo. haha
prosti. dami rin malapit sa skul. one time pumunta kami sa 7-11
sa may burgos.. (sa di nakakalam, ang burgos ay isang kalsada sa makati na may helera ng mga nightclubs..) mga 8 na un..
aun. nakahilera ang mga prosti/victims..(baka magalit si yna.. hehe) kumakaway sa bawat sasakyang dadating.
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about how a girl dresses..
di ko na pinapansin yan.. tsaka lang ako magrereact pag pumasok sila sa simbahan ng nakaganon. haha.
hahahah naalala ko bigla ung ran girl, kasi un ung nakita ko 5 mins ago bago ako magbasa dito. and may nagsabi pa nmn sakin na dapat sumali ako dun, addik daw ako sa ran. aayoko nga. anyways…..
pag nakakakita ako niyan, nagpapasalamat ako sa diyos at may mga magulang ako na nagaruga sakin. un alng.
oh moses.
hehe.
nice observation u got.
sargies eh?
hmm. might drop there some time. LOL.
uhm, regarding this,
“forgive me for branding those girls as prostitutes. I know that they do have a clean motive; or I mean, some of them. Money is money, and they need it. They’d lick the sharpest swords, they don’t care if they’d bleed. As long as they earn money.
Unfortunately, I do not know the point of view of the girls.
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well, i think they’re not really prostitutes. i’d call them prostituted.
the looming state of poverty in this country pushed them into prostitution.
sharpest swords, hehe. nice metaphor for the phallus.
well, u can never tell what those girls were thinking unless u become a girl urself; or you try and interview and befriend one of them, just know their stories and all. anecdotes could be a good source of information. in addition, u can also watch docus and research on studies conducted in relation to those “prostituted women.”
there.
anyways, chillax ayt.
apir!
=)
I agree or not agree with you. I don’t know my point haha. But what I know is that everyone has a choice. These girls chose to become like this for a reason. Desperation, or poverty, but who knows, they find joy in it.
It might be degrading nga if they are like that, but I guess respect is what they need from us (even though it would be difficult for some people to do so). Regardless, they’re still human, and they need to live. No matter how much their tongue bleeds.
Love ur metaphors. =) Take care I miss you!
Ikeee…. talaga naman! i tour mo naman ako sa inyong tourist spot! whahahah akala ko paputok lang ang ekonomiya ng bocaue… may ibang putok pa pala! whahahahah ituro mo yan sakin sa wikimapia! whahahaha
Dude, you should send this article over to The Man Blog.
Also, some girls try to dress provocative, but seem to be poised to slap a restraining order on you when we men unfortunately look at them. WTF?
But we shouldn’t also say that it’s our male instincts. There’s a reason why our testicles are at the bottom and the brain is on top.
wahay, yna, mabuhay ka!
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pero nakakairita nga rin ang girls na walang pakundangan manamit..at, sa jeep pa napiling sumakay.. aray..
may mga nakakasabay din nga ako sa ikot at toki jeeps na hindi mapakali sa pagkakaupo dahil sa suot, eh parang “choice mo yan eh ija, lakarin mo na lang kung nahihirapan ka umupo dahil hindi makaupo ng maayos yung mga nagbayad din.” haysss..buti na lang nakatsinelas sila.. (huh?) go! lakad na!
“we can look, but we cannot touch”, hehe.
even if im a man, i dont think it’s fair for both sexes if men are expected to drool at scantily-clad women (and get away with it) while women cant drool over scantily-clad (think muscle shirts or sandos) men.
anyway, my point is, regardless of gender, lahat tayo may ganitong desires and instincts. ano naman masama kung nagagandahan / nagagwapuhan tayo diba. =p
about the ‘prostitutes’, i cant say if they’re wrong or right. all i know is that they shouldnt be judged.
punta ka na lng sa RECOVERY bar….dun din un sa mac arthur hiway…ahehehehe..wala na tayong magagawa, dumadami na ung mga taong gnun..pati mga lalaking…waaaaaaaa..ewan…hehe
Haha. Well, prostitution is already part of our society. Even the richest countries have prostitutes, and I think they are here to stay. For as long as they are people who supports or “needs” these kind of things, then hindi mawawala ang prostitution.
Oh, and this post is not nice? C’mon! Kung ilalagay ko ito sa blog ko, this will be my best post ever! LOL.
Seriously.
ayos!
nasty talaga ang mga boys.
lalo na ang extreme ages.
mga teens at mga forgoteens.
sa totoo lang nababastusan ako sa mga lalake.
napaka ungentleman.
garabe.
BAD POST! Discrimination!
Well… wala naman akong masasabing iba dun opinyon mo yan eh.
Pero sa mga guys of course INCLUDING YOU, give RESPECT to us girls. Kahit ano pa yan syempre may damdamin din yan!
We girls don’t drool over guys (well I’m not sure with others). Like we’re some pervert thinking of some STUFFS. It’s rude kasi, kawalan yun ng RESPETO like I was saying.
Tsaka imagine yourself being watched from head to toe like their stripping your clothes off you body and… YUCK!
SEE? ang baboy diba? Both gender namam eh ganun din siguro ang mararamdaman.
Oh yeah… pwede ka ring makasuhan kahit na nakatingin ka lang. We had this talk sa club namin. Even saying that someone is hot, sexy, and stuff in a maniac-y way is against the law.
“Prosti” well we can’t blame them for having this kind of “job”. Wag na lang natin silang gambalain o husgahan, alam naman nila kung ano ang tama sa mali eh.
HABA NG REACTION!!!
hehe **your
Screw machismo. It’s just a petty and philosophical excuse to hide a man’s constant urge and need for sexual gratification. Heh.
Guys, don’t flame Utakgago for this entry, or don’t say that this is a bad post or anything. After all, he has the right to express his side of the story (and most of the men’s) since this is his blog. YOU have no right, I guess.
Thanks Talamasca. And about Tsina’s post, that’s the sad thing about girls. You just fought with me for the girls’ rights, and I do respect that.
they’d lick the sharpest swords.
howmaygahd i have a very dirty mind. i always knew i was male.