The Brochure.

It was last Wednesday at Mall of Asia. After we had dinner at Shakey’s, we walked at the sidewalks of the open part of the mall. Suddenly, this lady from a restaurant hands out brochures to people she’d see. When it is our turn, my companions didn’t bother;

In my part, it wasn’t good.

Before she feels depressed for customers not getting any brochure from her, I made an initiative to get it. My companions didn’t see what I did, but I care less about them. I am not that interested with the brochure from the restaurant, but why not get a piece of paper to somehow see the menu? Why not show a humble act to make her realize that her efforts pay off? That somehow, we appreciate her hard work?

What if you are in her shoes: giving these sheets of paper and faking a smile with passersby, (or the plural of the word – passerby. I checked Merriam-Webster and it tells me to use passersby. Weird.)

No. I am not telling this to force you to get every brochure that exists in any mall around the world. It’s just that we need to appreciate simple things to make people happy, even if they were strangers. I myself denied those waitresses (or whatever you like to call them) before from their brochures since I am not interested with jewelries or fancy ballpens. But then, I realize that somehow – we should, once again – using the word: appreciate their hardships.

Oh well, we can’t do anything about it. After all, it’s their job.

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I have received reports that our maids are voraciously eating every piece of junk inside the fridge. They emptied the cheddar cheese, mouthed every slice of Gardenia bread, frying hotdogs and pancakes as their breakfast, and simply ransacking our canned goods – they even opened a Luncheon Meat for themselves without asking permission. They watch the CABLE TV longer than ours. Little by little, they are owning this house. With all due respect, I am a law-abiding citizen and therefore, I would not abuse my rights as their boss (I think, the word boss is inappropriate for me).

This crime of gluttony is unbelievable. My father was getting mad with this.

Not that my father and I didn’t want them to give enough food to fill their stomachs. But the fact that we don’t open canned goods, we eat less cheddar cheese, and that we are not picky in terms of our breakfast is simply saying that we are the maids and they are the boss.

This morning, they OPENED a box of ready-to-mix pancakes and fried hotdogs from the freezer. This is their humble breakfast. My dad and I had tinola as our breakfast. That was actually our ulam yesterday. Diba’t nakakaasar, na mas pihikan pa ata sa pagkain ang mga katulong na ito? Namimili ng pagkain, nagbubukas ng delata, at kumakain ng kung anu-anong trip nila. Mas marami pa silang nakakain samin kung tutuusin.

I want to promote equality in terms of food intake. I want to tell them to somehow eat stuffs moderately; and shout at them not to mess up with our canned goods since it is for emergency use (calamities, gas leaks, or scarcity of food. I would like to tell them to eat FIRST the ulam before eating the luxuries.

If our patience-o-meter ran out, we’d kick their butts out of this house. Our house is not, and never will be a restaurant.

~ by utakgago on September 2, 2006.

35 Responses to “The Brochure.”

  1. hala. ano ba yang mga maid nyo. kami sa amin dati lahat ng kinakain namin, yun rin kinakain nila. pero di naman sila kumakain ng kung ano ano na lang makita nila. tsk tsk.

    hay. minsan naawa ako dun sa mga taong namimigay ng papel… wala naman kmukuha… in fact i encountered someone.. yesterday at school… after an assembly… wala lang eh nagmamadali ako .. walang oras kumuha ng papel… ginawa ko na lang eh nag smile ako. =)) hahahaha! mahirap un trabahong un. di pwedeng sumimangot.

    ehwan. at sa mga katulong niyo? grabe talga un. o.o ilan ba sila? parang ang dami naman! haha!:D

  2. hey…. i see you’ve jumped on the wordpress bandwagon! i’m gonna switch soon as well, pero hinihintay ko pa rin yung maghohost sa akin… [diba may skin switcher dito? yun yung gusto ko eh].

    anyway…

    your maids look like they’re invading your home. fight for your right to watch tv! don’t let this go unnoticed! woohoo!

  3. yeah, hindi madali yung job nung mga nagpapamigay ng brochures. kaya ako pag natatapat sakanila eh kumukuha talaga ako.

    woah, grabe naman yung mga maids nyo. never pa ata ako nakaencoounter ng ganyan kalala. mas pihikan pa sa amo! dapat siguro eh pagsabihan mo na sila…

  4. Actually, puwede ka nang magcomment sa site ko. Nilagay ko dun sa sidebar ko (sa baba) na maglogin as GREENADDICT tas ang password seventeen para makapagcomment na kayo. Haha. :)

    OMG. I also feel pity sa mga namimigay ng brochure. EH, hindi naman nila ako binibigyan kasi feel nila bata pa ako. HMPF. Pero kinukuha ko naman minsan.

  5. its me again.. :)

    wow, english entries naman dito.. hehehe.. teka ha, basahin ko lang ng ilang beses, medyo mahina akong umintindi ng english eh, di ko rin alam kung bakit nandito ako sa amerika! hehehe..

    anyways, mahirap talaga ang trabaho nya.. kahit na inis na inis na sya sa mga taong dumaraan na di sya pinapansin, eh kailangang ngiti to the max pa rin sya.. trabaho eh…

    may mga naging katulong din kami.. lalo na nung bata pa ako.. di nga namin sila tinuturing na katulong eh.. “ate” ang tawag namin.. parte sila ng pamilya.. pero bakit naman ganyan sila? hmmm.. oo nga, pagsabihan nyo na.. medyo di na ata tama un.. wala na ung respeto nila sa inyo..

  6. heeya.iba talaga ang ambience dito kesa dun sa dati mo. relaxing.soothing. very calm yet ganun pa din naman ang posts mo… nice as ever. very. I find myslef really amazed wit yout entries.

    btw, yah. as you said…we should learn to appreciate simple things. and anu ba yang mga maids nio?daig pa kau ah.

  7. woi utakgago! wordpress ka na pala ha! :) ) haha. pa-link ex! psst, my new post ako. pakibasa. salamat. ingat!

  8. Superman!:) I miss you na! (anung konek diba?) Oh well my point ka naman eh.Bakit nga ba mas pihikan pa sila? Dati kasi my yaya ako na nung nagkasakit she asked my mom to buy her chicken joy from jollibee kasi mahina daw ang taste buds nya pag my sakit sya. :P

    And regarding abou the brochure,kahit wala talaga akong intention na bumili kinukuha ko since,sayang nga naman ang effort diba? It’s not because that I am nice kaya I treat them that way,It’s actually because they tried to be nice esp. sa mga mukang wala sa mood na costumers,right? :P

  9. ayay.. ganyan din samin.. nakakaasar isipin diba? minsan nga.. inis na inis mom ko kasi.. hindi kumikilos mga katulong namin — tipong mas masarap pa buhay nila at tulog ng tulog. >.

  10. Huwaw! may wordpress ka na…! ako din may wordpress pero hindi ko ginagamit… hindi kasi pedeng mag major customization ng skin…

  11. “It’s just that we need to appreciate simple things to make people happy…” korek. alam mo naawa rin ako sa mga katulad nila. pag ako nasa lagay nila tapos hindi ako pinapansin ng mga tao, siguro maiisip ko na, “wow, invisible na pala ako. or kulang lang tlga ako sa PR?” ayun.

    before i forget, i tagged you. check out my blog. ;) enjoy your new home!

  12. ei, nagpalit ka na pala ng host.

    nyways, bigla tuloy ako na-guilty dun sa mga namimigay nung borchures/flyers/whatever…

    and, grabe naman mga katulong nyo..di ba dapat pagsabihan niyo sila?

  13. ugh. gawd! If that happened in this house, they might’ve been kicked out long ago.. that is so unbelievably irritating!

  14. oi

    ngaun k lng nabisita wordpress mo

    hmm

    y not confront those maids

    mali n ung ginagawa nila… kapal nmn nila

    hmmmm

    anyway

    again

    sowee

    so dito k n tlga stay?

  15. lolz.. wala pa yan.. yung maids namin dati, tumatawag sa cellphoneunsing our landline, and talked for a couple of hours. at ninakaw nila ang mga damit namin ng ate ko, plus jewelry and stuff. tapos naglayas. langya. :D

  16. tsaka nga pala.. wala me sa blog rolling.. hmp

  17. Dati nga pinagsabihan ko yung Dad ko kase ang sungit niya sa mga nagbibigay ng mga brochures. :) As in todo deadma. Buti na lang hindi ko namana yung ganung ugali niya. :) ) Haha. Ako parati yung kumukuha ng brochure. Tapos kapag nakita niya na hawak ko: “Patingin nga.” Labo! :)

    Kami, we gave up on having maids a long time ago. Mga Grade 3 yata ako nung huli naming maid. [2ndyr HS na ako.] Ok na nga yung ganun, para hindi kami tamad. :) Haha.

    Ilan ba yung maids niyo? Sobra naman sila. Ni hindi man lang magpaalam na magbubukas ng de lata. Pagsabihan niyo muna, tapos kapag hindi nag-stop, paalisin niyo na. :) Haha. ;)

  18. dapat talaga kinukuha natin yung mga flyers, brochures o kung anuman. kawawa naman kasi sila. tsk. kaya ako, pag may nagbibigay sakin ng flyers o bochures ay agad kong kinukuha. pag nakakita nga lang ako ng basurahan ay agad ko rin itong itatapon. haha. at least kinuha ko naman, di ba? it’s one way of showing respect to them. :)

    papuntahan n’yo dyan ang nanay ko, kung hindi sila pinagmumura nun! haha. galit ang nanay ko sa mga maid na ganun. yung yaya ko kasi dati, eh ganun din. haha. kaya aun. wala na siyaq samin ngayon. haha.

  19. Hmmm.

    You should talk straightforwardly to the maids if they are obviously gourmandizing your family’s groceries and electricity. Since you’ve realized this, might as well have them be properly oriented with your so-called demarcation line in your house.

    Have had maids with similar pseudo authority. The nerve to munch on the pancakes et al.

  20. Bili nalang kayo ng bagong bahay! Dun kayo tumira! Ibigay niyo na lang ang bahay niyo sa maid niyo! LOL!

  21. Haha. You’re such a frickin’ saint. I’d just totally ignore the biatch. Nuff said.

    Maid? That word is not in my noggin’s vocabulary. In this household, we do everything independently, thankyouverymuch. Kinda like in the US of A, where people do not really need maids because they’re better off without ‘em. :-)

    And why, oh, why did you transfer? And why, oh, why AM I NOT IN YOUR FRICKIN’ BLOGROLL????????? Grrrr…

  22. and he’s finally in WordPress! Haha.

    pa-link. thanks. I’ll change your link asap. :)

  23. and i thought i was the only one who knows how to give pity to those brochure-giving people…

    damn, your maids are living the luxurious life. why haven’t you even fired them yet or even talked to them? if i were in that situation, my patience would have dropped to -5 already… keep bloggin’ kevin, see ya!

  24. Someone told me na ung mga nagbibigay daw ng brochures ay bawal umuwi unless naubos nila. I somehow feel guilty din pag iniignore ko.

    Mustah na kevs?:P

  25. hey there! dito na pla blog mo ha… ^__^

  26. Grabe talaga sa lakas ng magnet mo sa mga bloggers. Kaninang nagcomment ako dito, pangatlo ako, ngayon pagdalawampu’t anim na! =D

    Anyway, hindi ka pa nagkakaMIGRAINE? Waw. Swerte mo. Well, kaming mga babae, asar. :| Oh well.

    Hindi naman actually ganun ang life ko. =) Nakyo-kyootan lang ako sa quote kaya.. ayun. I’m actually a hardworking stupident. =)) HAHA! Whatever, Lea.

    LEA

  27. Screw those ungrateful maids. Buti na lang, wala kaming katulong. My mom never trusts anyone kasi nagkatrauma siya with cleptomaniac maids.

  28. heyah there..

    we had maids like that before. so annoying, eats like they own it (what they were eating), and watch tv (even in the master’s bedroom), like they own our house. my mom got mad and poof! they are gone. =D

  29. nag iinit ulo ko sa maids na ganyan… tapos kapag pinagalitan mo sasabihin minamaltrato! nakaka asar… wahahah

    minsan naawa din ako sa mga nagbibigay ng brochure, pero minsan kasi hindi mo din naman gagamitin ung mga binibigay nila, nagiging basura lang… kaya yun. hindi ko nalang pinapansin.

  30. rawr, those maids..yeah, well that really happens. i had the same situation with you. this made me really mad, iluluto niya sa amin ay sunog at walang kwenta and then gagawa siya ng bagong dish just for herself and maramihan pa. darn, buti nalang wala na siya..

    i agree, that somehow we shouldn’t ignore those people who hand out advertisements of the restaurants. the only problem is, sayang ang resources of paper. after people get those brochures frmo them, what happens next? sympre tinatapon lang at kinakalat. so sayang din. hmmm, sense? lol

  31. waaa.. pa add sa blogroll.. nde ka na ba mag uupdate sa blogger.. ito na ba talaga?

  32. I would have fired those maids a long time ago. You should put them in their place by reminding them of what they are actually paid for. I’m not saying you should be mean, just let them know how you feel.

    I dont ingore people handing out brochures, I flat out say No thanks when I know I have no interest in what they’re giving out. plain and simple. no need to be rude.

  33. I see you’ve moved!!!
    Wooooo!!!!
    Good bye blogger days, itoh?

    Anyways, I’ve experience handing out brochures for our tailgate party sa school. It feels really frustrating just standing there and be ignored by snobs who don’t bother looking at your handouts. >:( Very nice of you to me empathetic :)

    Nangyari na rin sa `min yan nun. Yung maid namin dati nung nasa qc pa kami nag-fofood trip ARAW-ARAW! grabeesssh! Tapos ninakawan pa kmi. Kaya we fired her. :) Basta alamin ko kung kelan dapat mawakasan ang paging abusado nila sa mabait na amo! [or boss] :D

    Geh. Ingats na lang! Xenxa na kung hindi na ko nakakadaan lagi sa blog mo.

  34. ^ in fairness, ang dami kong typo sa comment ko. hahahahaha. lol.

  35. heheh! if i were on the same situation, i’ll do the same thing you did. tama ka… learn to emphatize… try to put or feets in their shoes… what you did, is a simple yet a big gesture of kindness and being polite… wala naman mawawala kung kukunion ko yung broschure na binibigay nila. isa pang kinaasaran ko ay ayung mga tumatanggap ng broschure than after few stops ay itatapon din nila… maraming ganyan sa mrt… naawa ako sa mga nagbibigay nung broschure… hindi ko maipaliwanag kung anong feelinga ang nararamdaman nila seeing the brschures scattered everywhere.. hay!

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